I was in San Diego and had to see Amalia

She said, "You came here for a reason. Your contract is intense and interesting," With her finger up in the air and a smile on her face she continued, "I've been watching you. You came to teach, but not what you think. And when you find what it is you're supposed to do, you will feel it here." She placed her fingers in the center of her chest. "You have to experience pain in order to understand what it feels like. Today, you looked vibrant. You are glowing. You have a strong angel by your side."

When I shared my boy dilemmas she said, "You need to enjoy the moment, because the present is all you have. You don't want to be committed to anyone right now because then you will have to sacrifice what you want to do, even if it's only a little bit. You can't do that now. You just enjoy the moment, mija. When you feel it, feel it. If you want to be alone, be alone. You will see, you don't need anyone and when you want to be with someone, be with them because you want to; not because you need to. You were co-dependent before, but not anymore. Do what you want, what your heart tells you."